Gerka,

When there are no kids and the other was so nasty during the marriage....

We all heal at different rates. My current wife didn't grive much over the loss of her first marriage.

It took me a few years to feel normal again.

Are you damaged goods?

Yes and no. Be wiser about who you get involved with and look for certain character traits.

I'm sure you'll be considered a good catch, but focus on you for the moment and focus on your career.