Originally Posted by CynicalRomantic
Hm. See...I wasn't clear on that part of the exposure...whether they should call her. I guess that makes sense. I sort of wanted to make her aware that it had been done first. Is it better to just get them to call her?

Yes! The point of exposure is to get people to use their influence to persuade her to end her affair. It is always best for her to just start getting calls because this comes as a surprise.

Perhaps you can email them tonight and ask them to give her a call tomorrow and ask her to drop her affair.

. It's a text from the OM saying that he misses her. I'm so torn on whether I should reply/block/erase or some combination.

Text that loser back and say "STOP CONTACTING ME!!!"

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101