Originally Posted by CWMI
If there's a control issue at all, I would say it is that H wants to be in complete control of everything that he does without having to consider how that may affect anyone else.

Perhaps. You know him better than me. But what you posted is a DJ nonetheless.

Perhaps he doesn't want to be in control. You may find he feels he has very little control. Over you. Over his job. You may find that he is driven to meet your needs. And that he feels incapable of meeting those needs in a manner you find acceptable. I don't know what he feels.

But I am confident he won't admit the truth if he feels he is going to be judged and found wanting no matter what he says.

When you can see it coming, duck!