I would think that you would be happy that he did have this talk with his boss and has agrees/decided on no more travel. That is why we stop LBs... because it hurts our spouse, not because of how the one committing LBs feels. Dr. Harley has stated that it's easier to change action than feelings.

I think that's porn example come to mind because I read a lot ofof threads on here where the wife is being hurt by the husbands porn viewing. The husband has to stop watching porn because he understands that it hurts the wic an therefore hurts the marriage. Ho he personally feels about the subject isn't really the point.

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)