I agree 100% that Independent Behavior is showing it's ugly head in your situation....

I also believe that whenever the LB of IB has surfaced, there is a need we want met at the same time..... And bygolly, I'm going to see it gets met whether you want to meet it or not.

Key words I see;

MY Dream Job
I deserve
I want and feel as though I deserve a nice upgrade
I want them anyway
Selfish perhaps but still this is what I want.
My wife doesn't work all that much - (Nice) frown

LID,,,So what do you see when I pull these out??

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Recovery began 10/07;

Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.