Originally Posted by markos
The realization you had was bought at the expense of your wife's feelings. Is that really anything to celebrate?

Are you looking for more pious communication from me? Should I cease expressing any encouraging signs that I'm learning and improving?

Sorry for the questions, I'm just not understanding what you are intending to happen by asking the question above.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD