Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by Prisca
Where is your Love Buster plan for DJs, Hilltopper? This is the reason you made it ... review it, and do not allow yourself an excuse to slide.

It is not your wife's fault that you "react." Use your plan. Stop reacting.

Yes, review that plan. Find out if this round of DJs from you are caused by you not keeping to your plan, or if this round of DJs from you are caused by scenarios that your plan doesn't cover. Then you will need to either extend your plan, or go back to following it.

Wife is on couch giving me silent treatment. Very hard to deal with. Not sure what to do when she does this. Very, very common.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD