So in an attempt to avoid the dreaded "cycle" my wife and I get into about every 3-5 days, I picked up the workbook this morning and read all LBs and ENs for my wife. I think awareness is key here. The cycle as you recall used to be every two days, so we are doing much better. We had a great conversation, mostly about MB, but also how it was growing up in each of our families. It was really nice to have my wife open up and just share some stories from her youth. I hope she enjoyed the stories I shared as well.

Tomorrow night we've planned a Date Night which is critical since out of the house date we had was Saturday Night. My wife has been tracking our UA time and last night we got in about an hour. It would have been longer but baby has been waking back up about 830pm each night for a short period of time, and only wants my wife to get her back down. That is stressful to her.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD