It just appeared to me that you are unwilling to do what you can for birth control (vasectomy) but expect your wife to be willing to take birth control, get an IUD , whatever. I guess the only options I see you focusing on are options that require her to do something be it take bc, get an IUD, etc.

I realize you have legitimate concerns regarding an vasectomy and why you don't want you realize your wife has legitimate concerns regarding bc or an IUD and why she doesn't want to go those routes?

I'm not saying you aren't discussing options together. I'm saying the only options seem to be focused on her.

Last edited by rubydoo; 06/10/11 01:28 PM.