Originally Posted by Jackblack
Hill this seems to be where your problem lies. You said you would get a vestectomy and now you are not. Some people would see this as a crediblity issue.
I am not arguing the merits of a v I have never thought of getting one myself, but you are stuck with having said you would get one. Where is the follow through?

And what does the POJA dictate should happen to any agreement where the spouse changes his mind? The solution is to NOT follow through and to negotiate a NEW agreement that makes them both happy. Has nothing to do with credibility but everything to do with making both spouses happy.

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