I think she enjoys dinner with me, but also loves to be very social. I think I am an acceptable companion for her but not her favorite. Again I am not her priority and so I need to figure out better ways to become that. Her friends are a priority, obviously the kids, the house, and going to the gym. I feel I am probably #5 behind those four items.

She frequently brings up the past when we get in any serious discussions about our marriage. I don't know man, I'm so emotionally drained and exhausted it is hard to focus. How about we just go simple question and answer right now for some clarity because right now I have none.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD