Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
She says she wants to spend that time with me and if I acted like I cared and planned it that we'd do it more.

I think this is what your wife said you need to focus on. Are you making any progress in this direction? I bring it up because I think it could really help. And it shows a crack of willingness on her part.

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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.