But, I forgave her before she even confessed...
Why? Why would you forgive someone of such a grievous harm to you? Because of your investment in your family at the expense of recovering and repairing your marriage?

I would NEVER forgive someone of a horrific harm that they have committed against me when they haven't even acknowledged their harm. It would let them know that they don't have to do the work to repair the damage they have caused.

D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!