Originally Posted By: aimee
Thank you for the support its really needed right now. He really does need to get help and i have told him that we need to take this time apart and focus on ourselves before we can work as a couple. He says that when he gets home he will go to VA for help but actions say it all. He didnt handle breaking the engagement too well. He comes home this Sunday and i know he will be at my front pourch. What do I do?

Did you listen to those clips on what Dr. Harley said? Your safety is the priority. Good job on having firm boundaries and not taking it.

You tell him you can't see him until he's in a program getting help, no dates, no visits, nada.

Write a letter explaining this, if you can't tell him in person, and buy him Lovebusters by Dr. Harley.

FWW/BW (me)
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.