Originally Posted by Callmebruce
I asked her to "tone it down" a little bit...I told her that she doesn't have to stop, just to consider my feelings.

Almost a year has passed...

I can understand his position and I told him not to worry.

I don't want to tell her to stop...

Seriously? You want/expect loyalty but tell people no worries and won't ask your WW/cousin to stop her/his bad and inappropriate behavior? You are a big part of the problem, Bruce.

BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011

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