Originally Posted by nscriv
Hi, yes, most of it. Thank you.

I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with all the information as there are many different angles to look at, and I don't know where to find good therapists who follow this philosophy in the country that I live in. So I thought that I would ask for some thoughts/advice from the people in this forum, at least for a starting point.

Thanks again.


What Brainy is saying is that your wife has withdrawn from the marriage. Angry outbursts(AOs) cause people to lose their love very fast.

Fortunately for you, this is something within your control and we can give you guidance. There are several people, including Dr Harley himself, who have personal experience of eliminating AOs and recovering their marriages.

Have you talked to your wife about posting here? It would be good to get her perspective. If she does this, tell her to start her own thread.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)