I was talking to his sister when he got home, so i cut the conversation short. But she knows everything and is very understanding of where i am coming from. She knows a lot of our history anyway, but she was shocked that we were still having problems. Have not talked to mine yet. Am hoping i can go see them tomorrow after school. I'm not feeling too worried about us blowing up, we are just not talking at all. He may have really meant it when he said he was done.