I've been relying on Open DNS to block porn sites. It works great ... as long as no one pushes the RESET button on your router. This returns the router to factory settings, at which time the entire Internet once again becomes your network's oyster.

As far as I can tell, there is no hardware/firmware/software solution to this problem for any router. If anyone knows of one, please speak up! Otherwise I am reduced to considering supergluing the reset button or sticking the entire router in a locked case.

The alternative, of course, is open communication about this. Last time it resulted in something like, "I am not treating you like a child. I am treating you like an adult who has the proven capacity and willingness to hurt me." It was not pleasant, and I wish I were not facing the need to go there and beyond again.

Just another road bump, eh?