A few years ago I sprung a surprise on my W at Valentine's Day. On VD itself, I handed her a letter with an "invitation" to a "day spa experience". At the bottom the address of the "spa" was our own home. It was full of spa-type experiences, like massage, soaking in a bubble bath, pedicure, shampoo, gourmet meals (that I planned and cooked), and finally, a shopping trip to a nearby mall. It was a blast, and she talks about it to this day.