The A is not currently public knowledge; given the profession H is in, going public could severely damage chances of future employment in this field, not just for him but for OW, too.<P>When H ended A, OW threatened suicide, expressed fear that I would go public. Claimed to be miscarrying, yet offered no evidence/proof that she was pregnant, assured H that she would not pursue him, was sorry, and that he was not responsible for OC. H assured her that I wasn't interested in making the A public knowledge nor in getting her fired. Both H & I want to avoid hurting our children.<P>One week later, OW is angry, and verbally attacks H at work, threatens to go to superior. Claims H is not taking responsibility for OC. Repeats same attack, but in more low key way the following day, at work. H does not respond/react or communicate, with the exception of dealing with work-related issues.<P>This was a month ago. No more "attacks" since then, however, OW has been "cooly professional". Should this be taken as a good sign, or is it the quiet before the storm?<P>After claiming to be miscarrying a mo. & 1/2 ago, OW maintained afterwards to still be pregnant. Implies she is seeing baby doctor. So far, OW has informed 2 sub-ordinate co-workers of the A, but other than that, they appear to be maintaining confidentiality.<P>So, here we sit, waiting to see how OW plans to unveil pregnancy, if she is, and the aftermath that may follow. . .<P>Sometimes, I feel like my life is hanging by a thread, but H assures me repeatedly and on daily basis that he is committed to me, our marriage, our family and wants nothing to do with OW nor OC, if it does indeed exist. His actions support all that he says & I am confident in that regard . . . it's just that the next 6 mos. cannot fly by fast enough for us to "move on". . .