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Re: Plan B Update. 1 week down.Updated w/questions...
#1130788 04/30/04 06:53 PM
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I have been in Plan B since September (mostly). I still continue to see WH's family. I was very honest with them and told them I would prefer not to talk about the relationship between my H and me. So far it has worked out well.
Re: Plan B Update. 1 week down.Updated w/questions...
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just wondering how things were going for you. keep us posted as you feel comfortable. prayers to you.
Re: Plan B Update. 1 week down.Updated w/questions...
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How are things?......

Hmmmm. I moved into my townhouse this weekend. I got a little frustrated about having to buy the same crap I bought six months ago when W and I bought a brand new house. I'm still in the process of unpacking and the like. Blah.....

I talked to MIL this morning. The conversation was basically about taking BIL to the movies and the such. I really didn't focus too much on the R even as the conversation drifted that way. Basically just restated the PBL that I would be willing to work once the A has ended.

MIL stated that FIL was really surprised that all this has lasted this long. It's really hard to judge, but who knows what's going to happen.

I'm trying to keep my head up, but that stuff is difficult sometimes. In typical BS impatience, I just want this to be over.....

Blahhhhh.....

Ethan
Re: Plan B Update. 1 week down.Updated w/questions...
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what do you think that means when your FIL said he was surprised that this has lasted this long? your W's A or your resolve?

thanks for the update and hang in there, prayers to you.
Re: Plan B Update. 1 week down.Updated w/questions...
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Oh... WW's A, definitely.

Both MIL and FIL have no doubts about my integrity, patience, forgiveness, etc.

I do know how stubborn my WW can be/is. That is what leads me to believe she won't turn back to the M. She'll stay with OM3 just to prove everyone wrong.

I know, never say never, but the rollercoaster is plunging today.

BBBBLLLAAAAAHHHHH..............
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