I dont know where to start. i have been reading posts in mb for 6 months now trying to get ideas of what to do and im still lost.
my wife and i met last may and seem to hit it off from the very beginning and things seem to moved rather quickly.on our first date we were having a discussion over dinner and i asked her why she and her ex had gotten a divorce and she told me that she cheated on him and was caught.they were married for 10 years with 2 kids.she said she regretted her mistakes very much.
she had been involved with a man 25 years older than her and that it had lasted 4 years until they got cought.she also said she had ended the affair.
well things moved rather quickly as we were married 1 month later.(june 12th).we went on honey moon to panama city and spent a lovely week there and came home.i was working at a job that had me gone for 2-3 nights a week (truck driver) and before long i had found a job that i could be home every night.i was working 12 hour days and coming home doing house work,laundry,dishes etc. she worked as a cashier at a local home improvement store.she would sometimes go to work in the afternoons and be home at 11 p.m.
in feb of this year i came home early 1 day and found her in the tub cleaning herself with a t-shirt on.(who takes a bath with a t-shirt on)? i confronted her and she confessed. she told me they had been togher maybe 2 or 3 times.
to make a long story short we had a meeting with om and his wife and i found out that they had been seeing each other since 2 weeks after we got back from our honey moon.they would met while i was at work and they both were off in the mornings.they would meet a state parks and walk down nature trails to do there nasty acts.they would meet under bridges any where they could.my life has changed completly. i have spent the last 6 months in a living hell. not knowing what do do.

Rick - this one is easy, I'm sorry to say.

Secure your fair share of all your assets and leave her. Get an attorney and begin dissolving this marriage.

You made a huge mistake marrying her and it's a mistake to continue a mistake, as you are now so painfully aware. That said, her mistakes are MUCH worse than yours.

Cut your losses and find a woman of integrity.