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He is dressing up as a bride and she as a groom. No joke. How fitting.
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Sorry Juke.... that has to be rough. Hang in there...
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Sorry to hear about that Juke They are definitely making a mockery of something that should be held as a high value. Guess it obviously goes along with there high standards of morals. jets
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I am sure it was the [censored]'s idea to do it. What an [censored]! The only reason I know is because I was at my appointment this am and I overheard a co-worker of hers talking about it. It really is sick IMO. Oh well, I just thought I would share something ridiculous.
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Take comfort in this Juke if you can, When they are at their Halloween party and their friends come up and talk with them and ask how they met. They may say one thing but they will probably be bothered by their subconscious telling them the truth, especially your WW. " How did you two meet up?" WW- "AAHH I cheated on my Husband!" Think she has to live with this for the rest of her life. I wouldn't want to live with that on my conscious for life. jets
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juke:
I was going 2 ask you how you know, but you answered.
Any chance you could find another Ortho 2 go 2?
Like somewhere else in the solar system, perhaps?
It sounds like it might have been "deliberate" that you heard. Maybe they're telling your xW how you reacted, twitched in the chair, or whatever.
Don't let people play these games with you.
You want your xW 2 have 2 imagine EVERYTHING she's curious about without ANY verification from you. Even indirectly.
-ol' 2long
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Man oh man is their maturity level at zero. I think we need to get the SW MB party planned. As of yesterday, the divorce proceedings have begun much to my discontent. Time to live my life without WH...if he wants to have sex with OW, he is going to lose out on making love with me.
Shall we plan a 2005 blast off...toast to a new happy beginning for all of us.
-K
Me: 28 yo FW Him: STB 31 yo WH His Affair: 4 months last fall, ended 1/04; bottled up emotions until boiling pt 5/22/04 and immediately left; he admits to dating, I am NOT; Was in Plan A, Now in Plan B Divorce proceedings begun 10/28/04 <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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I understand how you feel. That's pretty tasteless, no doubt about it. Perhaps more appropriate might be the "Pimp 'N Ho" costumes that seem to be so much in vogue these days.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <small>[ October 29, 2004, 04:16 PM: Message edited by: reservoirdog1 ]</small>
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okay...
this is bad. I just want to say that up front.
You could dress up as xw, and crash the party. ROFL. Imagine the fun you could have with that one....
Okay, back to reality..that she is doing this is just so much a sign of the lack of remorse she has. Juke, is it possible you could move to a new town? I think a fresh start might just give you a good outlook. I definitely know you need a new dentist.
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Shall we plan a 2005 blast off...toast to a new happy beginning for all of us.
I'll toast to that!
I agree with the others, go to a different Ortho, and move if you have to!
Gross! I can't imagine anyone who knows them even acting like that costume is funny, or cute. How totally tasteless.
Juke you are soooo much better than this, living in the aftermath of this heartache. It makes me sick that you are hurt, and they are going out dressed like that.
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Sorry Juke....that is sick! I'm sure my WH and OW are going to a party also. He hasn't even asked to spend time with our son this weekend....I guess HIS plans with OW are more important.
Hang in there.....you will be going to a Halloween party next year with someone specail..hopefully we all will.
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