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Re: WH is to nice somethings up
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Re: WH is to nice somethings up
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Basically,

What are his primary Emotional Needs being met by the OW?
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Re: WH is to nice somethings up
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I don't have a lot of time right now.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Nothing was resolved should I now go to Plan b have been doing Plan A for 6-7 weeks </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">However, I want you to know that you are in no way ready for PLAN B. In order to get help on this site, I would suggest that you change your TOPIC TITLE.

Even though you may have been in PLAN A for 6 to 7 weeks, wouldn't you admit that you have goofed a lot on this and your PLAN needs work? Your goofs have included your repeatedly making DEMANDS and stating that you want to leave.

Also, unfortunately, you need to acknowledge that your WH is having sex with this woman.

I'm sorry if it sounds like I am being hard on you. I want to help you.
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Re: WH is to nice somethings up
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I'm sorry to be the obsessive QUEEN OF TOPIC CHANGERS. However, I think you will get more help if you are specific. I recommend a change to URGENT HELP NEEDED WITH PLAN A: OW WORKS FOR US or something like that. The EMERGENCY part might be scaring folks off.

Just a thought. I'll be back with you soon when I have more time.
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DH,

Have your H watch the Dr Phil show about kandi & ed.

Those 2 post here on MB. He is a doctor and he may have gotten the psycho OW (who is a nurse) pregnant.

It maybe a wake up call for him. The OW was not as psychotic at the beginning. Now she is nuts.
You don't want it to go to that level.

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DH,

U R getting your ENs mixed up with plan A.

Plan A is about your showing your best side. Your ENs are YOUR emotional needs based on what you feel is important. Of course the WS/H has ENs also but right now it is more important he get his head out of his bu++.

Now you already have a lot on your plate. You really don't need extra hobbies unless your life is sooo orderly and you are bored. Howz about taking a more active interest in what your children are doing? Focus on yourself and your family.... you will find a lot to live and keep busy for.


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