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My best friend's husband is cheating on her but with escorts. The h has a prepaid cell phone, one good thing is I know that with this company you can go online to see what outgoing and incoming calls are made, she can't figure out the password. She already has a spyware on her computer but I don't think her H puts more money on the cell online. Can some of those sites that say they can get a detailed bill get one from a prepaid account?


I've been coming here off and on for 3yrs. This place has really been a blessing to me. I don't post much but wanted to let you guys know I have you all in my prayers!!!

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anyone? Help?

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Hi,

I am not gonna be a lot of help on this question but if you wait up a while maybe someone who can will stop by. Board usually runs slower on the weekends. ;(

How else can we help your friend? Have you introduced her to His Needs/Her Needs? If he is using escort services, then STD testing is a must. That's a whole 'nother subject but probably even more important. Also there are other ways of finding out info that maybe helpful.

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Itr may be easier to just hire a PI. But make sure your friend gets an honest one. Some, as I have read on here, are both expensive and useless.

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Orchid,

The sad thing is my best friend's H has herpes. I went searching around in the website he frequents and I noticed the girl that he's been with isn't all that great. I told my friend about it because she is trying to find fault in everything about herself and I had to stop her to knock it off. I did tell her about the MB site so I'm hoping that she has come here to read.

The other HUGE problem is that her H wants to swing with other couples.

I think right now she is gathering enough information and also to see if he tries to meet up with anyone so then she'll bust him. One other great thing is a good friend of mine I used to work with years ago is a PI and would help her out.

When I was in his email box I thought I was going to be sick!!! I feel so bad for my friend, we've been best friends for 21 yrs so when she's hurt of course I feel it too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />


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