I use to watch the stuff with him thinking that would help- it did for a while, not anymore.

The thing is the shoe use to be on the other foot. I use to be the one not interested in him, was thrilled if it was a week or more between incounters. Now I start climbing the wall after a day or two, and I think about sex several times an hour, all the time- i even dream about it.

I have sent him R rated pictures to his phone while he is at work (I know he shares so I have to keep them some what clean) he liked that the first time. I have waited for him in bed, met him at the door, brought home cherries and whip cream and started a fire (he went upstairs with this one not interested), I have sent him suggestive text messages, basically anything and everything I can think of. It works sometimes. others not.

H hates kissing me- never use too but since the affiar he next to never kisses me, and only REALLY kisses me is when he is looking for a little OS, and then usually one deep kiss, and then inquires about other things.

I guess I am feeling used, and neglected- it has been about 5 days- and he shows no interest. I miss my pre-A husband the one I could not keep his hands off, not the one who flinches if I touch him.

Weird how life plays these games on us huh!

KMEJ:

This is all I have to say to you:

E --- A ---- G-------L---------E----------S

EAGLES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EAGLES !!!!!!!!!!!

How are the three little tornadoes doing?

LM

K,

I don't think its you, its him. He's immature and wants to play these "power games" with you. To me that says he's insecure about something but what who knows.

Sometimes you just have to give up trying to figure out whats wrong with the other person and just live your own life.

Not all questions have answers!


Miker

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KMEJ:
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I use to watch the stuff with him thinking that would help- it did for a while, not anymore.

...Now I start climbing the wall after a day or two, and I think about sex several times an hour, all the time- i even dream about it.

I have sent him R rated pictures to his phone while he is at work (I know he shares so I have to keep them some what clean)...

I have waited for him in bed, met him at the door, brought home cherries and whip cream and started a fire (he went upstairs with this one not interested), I have sent him suggestive text messages, basically anything and everything I can think of. It works sometimes. others not.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Holy [censored] KMEJ! What is wrong with your H? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> (sorry, but I would love my wife to do those types of things for me.)

A friend of mine goes hunting every year and his W has always put some provacative photos somewhere in his belongings for him to find. The only reason I know about this is because another friend happened to be the one to find them this year. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I think that is awesome that she does that. My WW has never done anything like that for me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
MIF?

<small>[ January 12, 2005, 10:46 PM: Message edited by: MIF? ]</small>

Lemonman- bring it!! The little tornadoes are good, little Mikey will be two on Saturday <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

MIF- I wish my H was interested in me, I am so in need right now.

I don't care if I love bust anymore, maybe a nice kick in my H's butt will put him back in line. I often find myself wondering how many kids am I actually raiseing!!

Lemonman- if you read this- how is the eagle's training going?? I am looking forward to Sunday- win or lose.. as long as it is a good game!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KMEJ:
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I have questioned myself as to if H might be attacted to the same sex. He says everything is does not like is "Gay", makes me think that he might be over compensating something that he is trying to hide.

I am just dissappointed in H for last night. Is this typical of a WS to treat their BS in (so called) recovery like this??? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KMEJ,

The use of the word "gay" in that manner is slang...slang used by high school kids and college kids. It is used as an adjective in regards to something objectionable. An ugly outfit is soooo "gay"...a less than desirable person asking you on a date...he's sooooo "gay"...see what I mean?

His use of it just explains his "maturity" level. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I think using the word "recovery" to describe where you are is a reach. I would not consider it recovery when there has been NOTHING done on his part.

He simply moved back in...he had no "plan"...so he is not in "recovery".

JMHO
committed

That explains alot then. My FW-maybe WH manages an Applebees resturant. he works witha bunch of immature sex driven, tight clothed, self centered individual (typical for that age) I think my H has forgotten that he is 26, not 18- and no matter how badly he wants to go back and relive that feeling with all the freedom in the world that door is now closed.

I am not sure what he thinks, does he actually believe I enjoy sitting here listening to him blame me for everything and listen to the kids whine at me and cling to me? That I like cleaning, and staying home while he goes out? Granted I love my kids and love being with the, but I got back together with H so that I could give them a family- not so H could have a built in maid and babysitter!

Seriously my frustration level is so high, I really want to just give H the whole "we need to talk speech".

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KMEJ:
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Lemonman- if you read this- how is the eagle's training going?? I am looking forward to Sunday- win or lose.. as long as it is a good game!! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Some fans are nervous. I am not. The Vikes have some respect. Personally, I think the Eagles will end up pounding the Vikings hard, I really do. This game has the makings of a blowout. The Vikes are now playing for "their lives" for the 4th week in a row and playing away for the 3rd week in a row. The Eagles are rested and match up well with the Vikings. Randy Moss (f-ing scumbag that he is) is not 100% and I think the cold temperatures will be eating up his ankle. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

KMEJ, I could be wrong about all of this and will gladly eat crow if I am wrong. I am very in awe of your football knowledge and am impressed with your appreciation for your team...win or lose. We shall see.

LM

Hey thanks Lemon-
Aren't the Eagles still down Terrel Owens? He was a key factor in how you beat us earlier in the season. Yeah Randy is hurting a little, however it is not nearly as cold there as it is here- so they can easily train for the cold- tomorrow it is suppose to be -23* BEFORE the windchill factor- that is friggin cold!!!! They are talking about cancelling school even! Playing away from home is hard I will give you that, and we like our warm metrodome and the astroterf (?) but they are a team with heart and pride to boot, they will play their hearts out and try their best. I think you all are up for a real game. I highly doubt you are going to blow us out.. but if you do then I guess your team wanted it more then mine.

Can someone please come and clean my house for me, and make my kids stop fighting? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Oh and babysit too so I can have a night out with the girls??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I will not ever serve up crow lemon, you are rooting for your team as I am mine.