My Wh has really seeing the sunlight. After the talk last Friday and telling him about our home needing work and our rental needing work. He must have heard what I said and thought about what I said and realized I was right. Saturday night on leaving the house he said Boy, I have wrok to do around here. So the idea of buying another property is out the window. The work he has been avoiding is starting again. He even ck'd my cars brakes, changed the battery, found a nail in my tire and repaired it. Something he has not cared about for the last 2 years. I was taking the car in today to get it looked at. Now I don't have to. He is thanking me for things I do when asked to by him. He has coninued the EN's I have not had for 2 years. SF is fanatastic. Talking to me more and more. I told him yesterday that I think we are going to make it. I really do, just don't ever, ever do anything like that again. He held me and said I never will. I am not stupid and will keep my eye open. But I honestly think he knows he did wrong and has said so. He said I am so sorry for the deceit and verbal abuse. I am so sorry please try to forgive me. I do not know what happened to me I was someone else. I said yes you were -you were taken by the fog men and never let them take you again. Just call on me and I will help. I told him that is why honesty is best -I can't work on something when I do not know what it is. Please tell me if you ever contact or are contacted by these people. He said he would for sure. I said OK. Is this all a good sign. Or what?

Oh Realtor!!!! That's wonderful hon....I think it's fantastic progress <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Good for you!!!!!!!

-Caren

Sounds like you are headed in the direction of recovery. ARe you in MC? Has a NC letter been sent? Is he an open book to you now?

Caren I am so happy but scared tod eath -what if this is a false recovery..Told him yesterday I can NOT under any curcumstances ever be able to deal with this again. That is that. He said it will never happen again. I pray No do not let if happen again. Its all or none now, hope all goes well with you and your plan B..

yes to MC, he did not send NC but I spoke with OW day I found out. Had not found MB before hand. He is being open as far as I can tell. I still ck and will coninue for awhile. I am nervous have read about so many false recoveries here. So I will keep one eye open. He is calling me alot from work now, coming right hopme after work, doing things together, talking to me alot, working ona dn around the home, plus kissing and huggin alot. It feels great. For 2 years nothing now so much SF feel like I am 18 again <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> . Hope I am not being taken but I don't think so in my gut.

Trust your gut. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />