My wife and I had our first marriage couselling session. We brought out alot of feelings. But when the cousellor asked my wife if she could rate the value of saving the marriage on a scale of 1 - 10 my wife hesitantly replied 5 or 6. I was shocked and honestly so was the cousellor. My wife never gave any indication that she was so out of love with me and to find out that she truely believes that the marriage isn't worth saving as much as I thought blew me away. I ask you to pray for us and for her as I truely have loved her from the moment I laid eyes on her and have never strayed in my love for her. I haven't told her as much lately, due to stress, but I feel I have tried to meet her affection needs. We have three children and this is taking its toll on them too.

thanks for the prayers.