You guys are right. It did not feel right going out like that. It actually turned out to be more of a get together between 2 people I knew and one I didn't. It was definitely awkard for me. Not something I would repeat. She does have a place to stay while we are in transition.

She has agreed to do those things and sounds genuine. We are going to do MC as soon as she is out. Should be this weekend. The OM is quitting the job so that may work out. I think we could be in good shape. I feel confident about us making it because I know what I am willing to put in and if she is sincere like I believe she is then we should be able to make it.

She also needs IC so we have to look into that as well. I hope we can afford it all. Wish us luck, I may have to move over to the recovery forum after this weekend. (hopefully <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />)

Aren't you in Plan B?
How do you know all of this is happening if you are not having any contact with your spouse?

She got through to me on my work phone. I didn't want people from my work in my business. So I took the call. I answered and said "Are you ready to agree to everything in the letter." She said possibly, so I said "we don't have anything o talk about unless you are ready." She said yes but she was scarred of how hard it would be. That is how the convo started. I think that is within the plan B parameters. I am not having contact until she follows through so I think I am sticking to it in my situation.

I just hope that she is sincere. It should be easy to tell if she does the things in the letter. I want to go to counseling soon so I can figure out what to do next. Or at least what our problems are and if they are workable.