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I'm using the ideas from this site as much as I can. At times my W seems responsive and at others she fights it all the way. I'm away from home for about 10 hours a day. I know she is talking to friends while I'm at work. Could this be the problem? Too many cooks?
I am trying my best to save this and she said she will go to MC but she feels it will not work. Do I just keep on doing what I'm doing and making those deposits in the "Love Bank?" Or do I hold up a bit?
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Colin, are you sure the affair is really over?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm as sure as I can be. She is willing to try. I just find that after we have talked and things are going in the right direction I come home from work and she is completely different and I have to start over again. That's why I feel it's the too many cooks thing.
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