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Hi
just wanted all of you out there to put me in your prayers am meeting with ow at 4.30 pacific time. our meeting was supposed to involve my h as that was reason for meeting but she just wants to meet with me. got my head spinning. so just pray during that time for me if u can, that god will give me peace and give me the right words to say.
thanks, imtswife
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I hope your meeting went well.
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Hi
just wanted all of you out there to put me in your prayers am meeting with ow at 4.30 pacific time. our meeting was supposed to involve my h as that was reason for meeting but she just wants to meet with me. got my head spinning. so just pray during that time for me if u can, that god will give me peace and give me the right words to say.
thanks, imtswife I hope your meeting went well, let us know.
April - Affair May - OW tells H that she's pregnant June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church. December - OC Born - NO CONTACT! May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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I hope your meeting goes well. BUT, i will tell you that I don't think it is a good idea to meet ALONE w/ her. My first worry would be to protect YOURSELF!!! Meetings along turn into the she said/she said dealing which are BAD. Just my two cents. I would take a friend, if H isn't wanted there. Sunny D
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I really hope you meeting goes/went well. Good Luck!!
married 13yrs-02/02/93 A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03 almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday d-6/93 s-2/93 ss(oc)-6/04 God and True Love Rule
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hi all,
thanks for your thoughts and prayers this is first chance ive had to get here. very busy weekend. meeting went well, she wanted to meet with me first cause she wanted to ask straight out, did i want her baby. ive had timesd when i did when i hurt, cause i know it would make things easier but no way do i want that full time job again. i told her we just want our rights we dont want to go through and wont go though another nightmare like hxw has and still is putting us through. h ended up coming down, she agreed to joint custudy. just doest want b to call me mom and doesnt want us to try to take b away. we were good with that,I told her not to worry, Ive raised 5 kids dont even want to do that again. maybe during my temporary insanity moments i do, doesnt stay long. i assured her i just want to help her. she is much more relaxed now. if i had to raise it i would but that would come from her, not me making it happen. welldoing a major bible stuy right now am going to the cleansing stream retreat this coming weekend am hoping to be relieved of alot of my pain and guilt. its through our chuch but is achually a us states wide study. do a cleansing stream search i know they a website, i would recomend it to all. thanks again all of you.
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[color:"purple"]So happy for you that things went well! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> [/color]
married 13yrs-02/02/93 A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03 almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday d-6/93 s-2/93 ss(oc)-6/04 God and True Love Rule
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