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Re: wife cheating on me via emails and phonecalls...help!
Gibby1 #1540592 12/16/05 09:36 AM
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Gibby1 Said " 2. Expose the scumbag to his employer. Send them copies of everything as proof"..

I often thought of screwing up the OM with that.. Would it really do anything? What's the proof? emails? they could be fabricated. Would a company really do anything with a scumbag who screws married women if a) he's single and b) he's not screwing a co-worker??

Well, in the scenerio, it is a vendor-client relationship so you may have something.
Re: wife cheating on me via emails and phonecalls...help!
EarthMan #1540593 12/16/05 10:26 AM
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With Vendor - (employee of) Client you definately have something. It just depends on how good one is on convincing his employer that WW is actually the one offended if you know what I mean, because it is not likely she will file the complaint.

Also if you could get WW's friend that did it with him and said he is disgusting to file a complaint you can probably make his life at least uncomfortable.

BS (Me) 43 WW or FWW 40 2 DS's 16 and 13 Married 21 Years D-day 9/10/2005 Exposure 9/11/2005 False NC 9/11/2005 Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005 NC (Letter written Jan 2006) Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006 In a holding pattern. Me Still Handing in there Phil 4:13
Re: wife cheating on me via emails and phonecalls...help!
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Mel and Waiting, I guess we scared this one away...

Too bad, I think they had a chance. Sometimes it's perceived as 'too difficult' to do what it takes. I certainly understand that. I remember spending days trying to decide if I really wanted to save my M.

Dada, if you're still there, the reason you need to expose the OM is to end your W's fantasy. What happens to the OM is not important to your M. Your W will not come back to the M while the fantasy consumes her.

Move home and expose to OM's employer - in that order. This is MB 101.

Gib

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