TD,

I read your response. I'd like you to read part of my previous post:

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Orchid: Now leave her alone so she can either stand or fall. This will be hard for you but it is part of what you must do to recover.

Now TD, we need to help you help yourself. Stop aiding a WS. When she is a WS, she needs to be away from you and the children. Go read, love must be tough by Dr. Dobson. Don't worry, even if she reads, it she won't be able to apply it against you because her current WS frame of mind won't let her.

You go take care of yourself and your children. Reassure your children of your love and support and even if they are young, ask for theirs.....a hug is a sign of support. Your children know how to hug, right?

Listen, stay off her posts and keep out of her way. MB has had couples post in the past and when the WS type posts here, things can get out of hand...... so let her post her own thoughts and try to defend the WS way..... it w/b temporary, rough and frustrating but let her do it.

She can't hit or kick us like she can try t/d to you and the children, so let us take the brunt of her posts. You go and work on you. If she does the nanni-nanni-nanni type of whining, let her knowing that she isn't fooling us with babble. We will help her once she is willing to help herself.
take care,
L.


Given the above what you have recently experienced. R U ready for a plan of Action?

L.