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After reading many threads here I've come across an excellent thread by trueheart that includes a letter to Wandering Spouses everywhere.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1

I printed it, attached a hand written note That reads:
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Dear WS,

I came across this letter a couple of days ago on the Marriage Builders website. It was written by a Wandering Spouse who's been exactly where you are now. I am hoping it will help put things into perspective for you as you deal with your feelings in these troubling times.

Make no mistake, I am not prepared to give up on you, on us, our family. I love you. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Forever,

BS
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If only a tiny portion sinks in, I am greatful. Thanks trueheart......

BS

Last edited by barkingspud; 02/08/06 08:39 PM.
There is a clock on the wall ticking. I don't know where it is or what time it is but she's waiting for something. Actually, I think I found the clock. I can't see it clearly enough to read it though....


BH (Me) 46
WW 46
Married 15 years
A began - 6/05
DDay - 7/30/05
Exposure - 8/1/05
D papers served 8/10/05
A continues....
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I would set up anonymous email accounts on yahoo and then send the video to OM's work, family etc. But that is just me.

I've thought about that but, I don't want to split my energy as I figure it will start a whole new batch of battles. I want to focus on M and WW alone.

I checked the video once again, he actually sent it to her back in November. I'm guessing she had it on her phone and forwarded it to her regular e-mail account and deleted it from her phone. Alien abduction behavior for sure, she's NEVER been one for porn. Although I never tried it during our wilder days as I thought our sex life was plenty exciting.

There is a clock on the wall ticking. I don't know where it is or what time it is but she's waiting for something. Actually, I think I found the clock. I can't see it clearly enough to read it though....


BH (Me) 46
WW 46
Married 15 years
A began - 6/05
DDay - 7/30/05
Exposure - 8/1/05
D papers served 8/10/05
A continues....
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