Ok...got a phone card today and called a bunch of #'s from cell phone records....looks like H is calling a lot of women <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Only one girl answered...found her name to be Britney...figures.
Anyway...I dialed a 1-800 number and it took me directly to a message which asked me to enter an "access" code. Nothing else!
I tried calling 800 directory, but they cant give the NAME of the business...only can give you the # if you have the name of a business...sigh...
I tried googling it...no luck...
tried reverse look up...no luck!
Anyone have any ideas on how to find this out??
I would think calling cards would ask for a "pin" number...not an "access" code!
I am shaking and nauseated at what I have found so far today...and am determined to get to the bottom of things.
Anyone have ANY idea what I say to women I call when they answer??
How do I get them to say they know my H, where they met and why they call eachother??
I made a stupid mistake regarding this Britney girl, floozie thing...I asked if she owns the cell phone...she said yes...I asked all confused if anyone else has access to the cell phone, she said no...I then directly asked how she knows (name) of H...she said she didnt know him and said I called the wrong #...I repeated the number to her and she said it was wrong...perhaps I misdialed, as there are a ton of numbers, BUT....I DONT think I did...I was very careful in dialing the number...
Anyway...I am worried about this 800 #....asking for an access code...that is odd to me. I am worried it might be a cell phone dating type of thing, but cant find what business it belongs to!
Thank you for letting me vent, ask questions and seek your help and advise and direction. I am at a complete loss and am a complete mess!
Thank you,
Emma

Sounds like a prepaid calling card.

I often do a search on Google.com for a phone number. You have to put it in quotation marks like these (if one doesn't work, try another one):

1. "(800) 555-2222"

2. "800-555-2222"

3. "toll free" "555-2222"

Lots of long distance phone cards show up as 800 numbers. Be glad it isn't a 900 number, then you'd have more reason to worry!

Thank you! That worked! Using the quotes in between.
Yes, they are prepaid cards...which throws me off.....since he is using them from his cell phone. I already knew of one calling card he keeps recharging, but I have found a few new calling cards now; which throws me wayyyy off as to why he would need it.
Thank you for all the support and guidance! Learned something new today!
Blessings,
Emma

Find the calling card, write down the number and access code, destroy the calling card, and see if he still uses minutes on it (if he has it written down somewhere else). Makes sure he doesn't purchase any more. I monitor my WW's bank statement to see if she purchases or charges calling cards (her way of trying to get around NC - she has tried twice and I've caught her both times).