I am new to this forum and not very literate on how to start a topic or where to post. I am reading everything I can here because obviously marriage is in the toilet. We have been together 8 years, married for 5 of them. I have a question, if your spouse is associating with someone male or female and they make you uncomfortable/don't like them, do you have the right to ask your spouse to end the association? Reasons they go to school together, they talk more than we do, this person is dishonest, and is definitely interested in more than friends. We all went out one night together and she was so mad that he (my husband) was paying attention to me, she was picking up other men. Oh and she is married too.
I asked him to end the association because I don't like her, he said no and then started lying whenever he talked to her or went to their house. We have been arguing about this woman for 8 1/2 months now and I have come to the point of wanting to move out. I am sick of him putting her before me and my feelings. Just curious what you all would think.

I have a question, if your spouse is associating with someone male or female and they make you uncomfortable/don't like them, do you have the right to ask your spouse to end the association?

I asked him to end the association because I don't like her, he said no and then started lying whenever he talked to her or went to their house.

I used a GPS to track my WH’s activities and many MB’s suggested that I share the information since it may be helpful to others in the same situation.

I bought my GPS off Ebay. It is a LAS 3100-INT. (Land Air Sea is the brand name.) There are lots of places that carry this model on the internet. I just used Ebay because I got the best price. I paid $250.00 and $25.00 for second day air shipping, so the total investment was $275.00. Probably much cheaper than a PI!

The unit is a little black box with very strong magnets on the back. You just turn it on, replace the cover so no lights show, and stick it somewhere in the car. I put it up on a piece of metal under the plastic bumper in the back. I was nervous that it would come off, but even in a very violent thunderstorm with high winds, it stayed.

The device tracks all the movement of the car and the data stays in the unit. Once you retrieve it from the car, you simply hook it up to you computer using the cable that is provided, and download the data into the software that come with the unit. It is very, very easy.

You get a report that you can print out showing all the driving activity, speeds traveled, time stopped , etc. You can also see a map showing the driving route. Everything you need to know exactly where and when that car went.

If you need more info, I’ll try to help.

Thanks, WTW

P.S. - A HUGE thanks to all who encouraged me to use this. I was able to confirm my suspicions with no room for doubt.