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Owl, I took the advice seriously and I did get a message back from SH, but it did not matter.

If he would agree I would get him to testify if need be.


Happiness is not having what you want, it's wanting what you have.

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Hi everyone,

Just wanted to provide an quick update (thanks KA for poking me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )

I have to appear in court on 9/18 at 11:45am due to this ridiculous claim that I am exposing the kids to my paramour. I think I have enough info to refute this, but please be in prayer for this. This is a link to the judge's profile:

http://www.judicial.state.sc.us/trial/family/displayfcjudge.cfm?judgeid=4077

Also pray that God's truth would continue to be revealed in my situation.

Nothing else is going on in the meantime, and still no agreements after the recent mediation session. I am sure a trial looms in my future. I am just dragging my feet while providing a stable and loving home for the kids. Oh, and I did take the house off the market.

DS is doing well in 1st grade and I have received good reports from his teacher. Still no resolution on school/daycare for DD.


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Just want to remind everyone to be in prayer for me tomorrow for my court date.


Happiness is not having what you want, it's wanting what you have.

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Support and prayers are on their way...I have confidence that everything will be just fine...

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Prayers coming your way!


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IAPBS,

Dear, you are going to be just fine. I just know it! Prayers and support continue!

Chin up and chest out as Mimi would say! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Keep us posted!!


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Thanks so much Rin, PM, and Bugs.

11:45am EST is the time tomorrow.

I am confident I will have good news to share tomorrow.


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I'm looking forward to hearing from you...Man, I'm exhausted tonight...

I laid down with L and went to sleep...then jumped sky high when my whole body twitched...I got up to get F in bed and I think that I'm headed right back there...

I hope that you'll forgive me tonight...I know that you are tired too and I recommend you getting some sleep...it must be getting late there...

I ahve full faith that things will go in your direction...have a great night and you are already a success!
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At 8:45am PT I will be specifically praying for you that this is the opportunity that God needs to break this divorce WIDE OPEN to expose the WW and all her lies, whilst also exposing your diligence, faithfulness, dependability, and stability. Do I wish ill to WW?? NO! I wish that her sin would be revealed as the light is shone down upon it.

You will be in our prayers, and so will your friend who has been supportive and encouraging and who now has to face a trial brought on by a true adulterer in order to clear her blameless name. I feel for both of you, having done nothing wrong, having to go before a court of law...

"Blessed are you, Lord our God, King of the Universe, Creator of Light and Truth. WE all pray that You be with IABPS tomorrow as he has to go before a human judge and defend his honor and good name. We pray that You would give YOUR wisdom to the judge so that he can see straight through the evil lies. We pray that you shine the light of truth BRIGHTLY so that not only is IAPBS's innocence is revealed, but that also the real TRUTH is also revealed clearly. We pray that in Your wisdom and Your timing you work in both IABPS's and his WW's lives and bring them closer to You. And we pray that tomorrow be a day of triumph over evil and the enemies that circle round. You told us in Psalm 27 that You would defend us from our enemies--of whom should we be afraid. May tomorrow be a day that we sing Your praises for Your faithfulness and protection."

BTW--I can't help but wonder why YOU and your kid's friends' mom have to go to court and defend yourselves about having your kids around your "paramour" when WW has moved out of the marital home to actually be with TWO other men and she has no such stigma nor has to defend herself (when her behavior has been indefensible). I suspect it's because she accused it first in divorce filings...is that correct??

Your mama bee,



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I will be thinking of you as well....prayers coming your way. You sound very strong, and you know we are all behind you, praying for you. Your personal army. Check in as soon as you get a chance.

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Today is YOUR DAY! YOU KNOW THIS! I have prayed for you and a successful outcome in your favor!

I kNOW that you will succeed, just as I did with all of the accusations that i had to deal with...they can lie ALL THEY WANT but the TRUTH prevails!

Time and time again we have seen this! You are a much stronger person then when you began this adventure...a true blessing to all that know you!

your kids will thank you one day for fighting to protect them! God knew what he was doing when he gifted them to you!

Success is yours!

Rin


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Just wanted to post real quick.....


Today God wins another victory.

Thanks all for your prayers.


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Wonderful! Let us know more when you can.

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Please let us know how you are doing IAPBS!

It's good to hear that you survived the meeting, AND have a victory to speak of. Good for you and your family!


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IAPBS,


Hey!!

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Amen to that!!! Can't wait to hear about it!!


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AMMMMM....GGEEETTTTTIIINNGGGG....IIIMMMPPPPAATTTTIIIEEENNNCCCCEEEE!!!

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AMMMMM....GGEEETTTTTIIINNGGGG....IIIMMMPPPPAATTTTIIIEEENNNCCCCEEEE!!!

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I don't know, but maybe with the court case, work, and being a single father, IABPS might not be able to update us 24/7. Just a thought. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
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Hi, jim...i talk to him almost every day in one form or fashion...

I was just messing with him...PBS, like Frog, has become like a brother to me...


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I realize you were just messing with him as I was just messing with you.


Jim

BS - 32 (me)
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No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
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Thank you, I'm in withdrawal today! LMAO <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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