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#1942881 09/19/07 10:30 AM
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Well, last post I did was fwh wanted to rebuild marriage BUT was still talking on phone to his "girlfriend" 1-2 times month; her calling. After much work...he has realized any contact is not good and any relationship with her is not appropriate. He has moved back in. Things are going well. BUT all I can see is images and thoughts of what I know about them. If we don't survive, even after al the counseling I have done I'm afriad I'm the one who will ruin it not him. HELP! Please.

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LAT,

Have you got the books SAA, HN,HN, LB's. If not, then please do and read them thoroughly.

What you are experiencing, and will continue to experience is all too normal for BS. It takes a long, long time for most of us to stop obsessing on the OP and what our WS did with the OP.

It varies from not only the SF but to other activities. I, was more interested in what they talked about that their bedroom gymnastics.

If a NC letter hasn't been written and sent, then that should be your #1 priority to insure that OW "gets it."

Come here and vent when you need to, but try to avoid love busters the best you can.

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I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

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