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My H is always complaining about the lack of time we spend together and that we need to do things together, but I suggest activity after activity and he just refuses to do anything. I ask for his imput and he just shrugs and says he doesn't know. He doeesn't seem to really care about doing anything together. We have never even been on a date or anything since we have gotten married.

What should I do to peak his interest? He doesn't really have any hobbies so I don't know what to do to get him interested.

Whenever he finally agrees to do something he just gets upset and says I forced him to and then doesn't go and sleeps instead which is kind of insulting. I am a very busy person and put all of my spare time (which isn't much) into him

Any suggestions on how to get him interested in anything?

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I would have him checked for depression. Sounds like me about 8 months ago. Get him to the doctor.


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