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What would the typical responce from WW be when they find out there soulmate has another girlfriend that they are hidding from WW?
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Anger. At YOU, OM, & OMGF. Mostly YOU. 
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I don't know, but I'm sure the BH reacts with BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
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What would the typical responce from WW be when they find out there soulmate has another girlfriend that they are hidding from WW? I would think she would feel betrayed. How ironic is that? :RollieEyes:
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What would the typical responce from WW be when they find out there soulmate has another girlfriend that they are hidding from WW? 1- WTF, how could he do this to ME??? I'M Special!!! 2- That fricking sl&t is trying to steal MY man! 3- **thinking of OM** What an lying ahole. :RollieEyes: :crosseyedcrazy: :twobyfour: 
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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What would the typical responce from WW be when they find out there soulmate has another girlfriend that they are hidding from WW? I think calling OM my FWW's "soulmate" would be a bit of a stretch, but she did feel a bit betrayed when she found out that he had another GF. She already knew about his fiancee prior to the A turning into a PA (yes, the OM was involved with three women at one time). My FWW actually suspected that the OM had another GF during their A, but that did not stop her from doing what she did. A's seem to apply an extra large dose of stupidity to the involved parties, it seems. BTW, after breaking the news of her A to me on D-Day, she actually had the audacity to tell me that she "knew how I felt" because she also was betrayed - by the OM. I think that was probably the time I felt the most anger towards my FWW in the 20+ years that we've been a couple.
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I don't know, but I'm sure the BH reacts with BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! and where's the camera? 
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
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I don't know, but I'm sure the BH reacts with BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! In my case, I didn't laugh. I thought it very sad that my FWW had sacrificed her integrity for such obvious scum.
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WS said "I can't believe how could that cheating OP go out and cheat on me."
The WS went from having the affair stroke their ego, to an affair crush their self esteem.
They feel cheated on.
That have to face that they were lied and used.
They have to admit they cheated on the one that loves them with someone that just thought of them as a easy lay.
How can can a WS feel good about getting cheated on. WS,BS, it does not matter what their label how can anyone feel good about being cheated on.
No one can be ok with being cheated on.
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They find a way to blame the BS: Something like, "If only you hadn't made things so hard, OM would still be with me. You ruined my happiness!"  I have no doubt that most waywards will find a way to blame the BS for the OM leaving them or for their future failed relationships. Afterall, if we simply sat in our corner and smiled and were happy for all the new joy and love the waywards find everyone would just get along great. Didn't you guys know this? :RollieEyes:
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She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.
Never going to happen.
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ManInMotion, my WH said "he knew how I felt".We were married for 20 yrs.. together 27...since I was 15.I had broken up with him when I was 18 over something petty,anyway it lasted 2 weeks and we were back together...
WH compared his feelings then to how I was feeling on D-Day..WTF!
If I had a gun I would have shot him in the b#lls!!!
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I think you're dead on, Pom. I'm pretty sure that's what WstbxH will do when it happens to him. After all, he's managed to blame me for everything else - including OW not getting as much CS because I wouldn't agree to move in with OWH and pay him rent, thereby increasing his income and her share of it  . Follow that logic if you can!
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