Here's a new one I got from WH over the weekend:

"What if I'm meant to be with TWO people in my life? What if I'm meant to be with OW and she dies and I end up with you instead?" (OW might have breast cancer, going for tests this week)

Wow. Way to boost my self esteem... "I'm only with you because my soooouuulmate died..."

And, a new favourite of mine:

"Haha, I need to have polygamous marriages!"

WARNING....T/J


Yes, in his own roundabout way, he wants me to buy him a car...

I have a lease car that he said he was gonna take and stick me with the old car....you know what, I dont care what I drive, I only use it for DS and grocery shopping....but I am not gonna take a car that he ran to the ground and now it breaks down all the time. We only had it to get him back and forth to work, which is in our town. It wasnt meant to drive an hour back and forth to see his mistress. I at least want a car that runs...

So I told him to go ahead and trade cars....and I can just walk DS to school or call the neighbors or MIL if my car breaks down...if he wants to use the lease car for his affair fun and leave DS and I with the crappy car, then go ahead. I guess that got to him because he never took the lease car...

OW says you love me but you are no longer in love with me

I'm tired of logic (me, BW) and just want emotion (OW)

I love you like a sister.

I love you like a wife. I love OW like an oversized baby I just want to take care of.

It feels like OW loves me more.

You versus OW - it's the difference between being wanted and not wanted.

omg that is a new one to me!!! Wow. How does he feel kissing this oversized baby?? *yuck* hahahahha!

More going up. Wow, at all the spewing...

"I'm sick of you and OW H interfering in my life! Stop talking to him!"

Uh....who is interfering in his life? Him and OW more than anyone.....

I loved OW before I had sex with her. I hate how the love was displayed.

I could do without the sex with OW. The emotional part is what is important.

OW adores me. She will do anything I ask her to do.

I wish there was a reset button. (but he won't actually reset his life by returning home to his family and leaving OW)

By the way, I added an email link, so if you have anyone you want to email a post to...

Teeheehee... youre baaddd...

About that oversized baby thing.......does he enjoy burping and diapering. Usually, its a really sad, unfortunate thing when someone of adult age has the developmental level of a baby. So, does that mean the sex might potentially be criminal due to their lack of cognition?

'Shiver me timbers!!!'

Oh, x and I had argument about the rightness of his choices, so, on his way to church the following sunday, he called and apologized, "I'm sorry. I didn't mean for you to get mad." I have never understood why he would apologize to me for my being mad....maybe for his asinine choices and behavior but NOT for my being mad.

Oh, after he had multiple EAs - with people I knew or knew of - he said, 'I'm not sure I ever want to be in another relationship with any female other than my mother, my sister, and (name of or daughter)". I wasn't sure what that meant. counselor didn't know what that meant. my ic didn't know what that meant. we didn't know if he was gender-orientation confused or WHAT...so I went and got std tests done at that point.

I think it means he knew how much he screwed up and was reluctant to give himself ANOTHER chance to screw up? That's my guess anyway.

WH told my DS about his leaving his family for OW..."Its not a happy thing to do, but its not wrong. Everyone is doing it these days." You know what Im gonna say to that!

and

"Your mother and I got married young, its hard for people to stay together that long." Yeah, so anything that is hard is not worth doing? UGHHHH! Thanks for teaching my DS such good lessons.

He also told DS that the Bible was just a bunch of stories that someone made up. And that "God does not punish people who do bad things, who told you that, your mother." ...

DS said, no, I read the Bible...hahahah, that smart little cutie . This all just happened tonite...I guess WH is on the rampage, not only with me, but with DS.

keeping in mind PQ is bi-polar..

"I like her simple life style"
"if you ever tell her I'm still sleeping with you I will never forgive you"
"why cant we be friends"
"I havent been happy for years" (real original, that one)
"Her H is a w*nker" (my response "It took her 4 kids to figure that out?")
"Im just helping her with her computer problems"
"She is more than just a ****, she is my friend"
"I dont want to give up her friendship"
" I know you dont trust me" (no dah!)
"she is a good person"
" I only want $20,000 of our house sale money you can have the rest" (that lasted maybe 3 days before wanting much much more)
"If it wasnt for her, I would come back to you"
"She has dumped me. Just kidding"

Geeze, I could go on forever. The fact of the matter is that active waywards are CRAZY, and half of what they say is bull, and the other half is sh**. If their mouth is moving, they're lying.

Ohhh, I forgot that one!

From my WW: "He really is a good person, he told me I should try to work things out with you."

At least she listens to him about as well as she listens to me (not at all).

He said THAT TO YOU??? What a **** (fill in any 4 letter word)

Along the same lines from my WH: "OW felt horrible when she found out you were pregnant."

Now, I have so many thoughts on this: a) YEAH she felt horrible, she was thinking she was the only one my husband was sleeping with, and b) if she felt so horrible, why did she sleep with him in the first place and KEEP ON sleeping with him? What a bullcrap way to manipulate my husband.

Please note that one's religious belief is not correlated to one's devotion to his or her marriage. As proven over and over again on this board, religious devotion, great faith, and an otherwise perfectly Christian lifestyle don't stop affairs.

Extraordinary precautions and building an interdependent lifestyle following MarriageBuilders principles prevents affairs.

Although Dr. Harley is vocal about being Christian, and that he believes his program was inspired by his god, his works specifically avoid a Christian bias in order to serve those of us who don't adhere to his religion.

I was the one who left our shared church 8 years ago. My wife's words on D-Day stand out in my head still, and I am pretty certain they weren't just wayward fogbabble:

"I never thought I would be the one to ruin our perfectly good marriage."

Yep. In her mind, if our relationship ever had problems, it would be my fault.

The statement to my DS from WH angered me because he was always a religious man and we raised our DS Catholic....Now that WH is in the A suddenly he feels the need to tell WS that the Bible is a load of puckey....THat is basically what DS got out of it, this is what angered me.

I am not saying I was right or wrong, just mad....

Wow, I'm over 500 views with it now. Posting new ones now. Hopefully it'll help you all if you need a laugh...