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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W
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agreed and thank you for your post. I'm fairly certain that i will not say anything that contradicts mb, just compliments it like myers-briggs. knowing your tendencies is vital to any relationship. its not an either or situation.
prd I am fairly certain that is not Marriage Builder's material, so I would strongly advise you refrain from posting it. i agree!
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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W i wish i understood your references to this dude gentleman, but yet i am just a drifting preacher man passing through your lil community. prd
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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W i wish i understood your references to this dude gentleman, but yet i am just a drifting preacher man passing through your lil community. prd Preacher??? Are you familiar with the book of dude? It says: Revenge Affairs work better than MB and are a whole lot more fun. Dude 13:69 Mr. Wondering
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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W ![[Linked Image from pic4ever.com]](http://www.pic4ever.com/images/25r30wi.gif)
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W 
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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Mr. W, I'm not so sure... Dude v. 1.0 would be way more entertaining than this! He's "pale"... maybe he's anemic and thus, lacks the strength to entertain Mr. W i wish i understood your references to this dude gentleman, but yet i am just a drifting preacher man passing through your lil community. prd Preacher??? Are you familiar with the book of dude? It says: Revenge Affairs work better than MB and are a whole lot more fun. Dude 13:69 Mr. Wondering wow. this chap you speak of seems to have made a lasting impression on you. is he still married? prd
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HI there, and welcome to MB. I was just reading over the 27 posts you have made in the last 4 days, and noted this: i hear ya. my situation is similar as my entp traits caused my fww serious resentment. i found out 15 years too late that the entp was too much for her. she sounds like your wh. entp's are not affectionate. some feel nothing. i'm shocked at how quick i recovered from her a.
prd was the only piece of info you have provided about yourself. I also noted that while you have a modicum of understanding of MB, much of your 'advice' is not MB, and in fact on 3 occasions lead you to being edited. Please, feel free to use this thread to let us know more about you and what lead you to MB. Lil So, Pale, what did lead you to MB? I think we still don't know. What Marriage Builders books do you have?
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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well. like i said, i'm just passing through sharing what i learned from my sitch. i have his needs her needs.
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Most schools are out, and we get an influx of this type of thing every summer. Do we really have time for teenaged nonsense?
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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how old do you think i am? is it my mystique that intrigues you to post like that?
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well. like i said, i'm just passing through sharing what i learned from my sitch. i have his needs her needs.
prd And what led you to that book, which is part of the Marriage Builders program? Have you read the Basic Concepts from the top of the site?
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Reminds me very much of a poster from a few years back...think his user name was TheSenator or Senator or something with Senator in it.....
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Brit's Brat, it was Senator H, and I do agree that his posts are somewhat similar; however, I don't think that the very rigid Senator H would ever come up with a user name like Paleriderdude. LOL!
Paleriderdude, every year we get a high school/college kid or two trolling the boards, posting a bunch of junk. You think you have mystique? Is that what you think you're using in order try to impress us? LOL!
I don't think anyone here is impressed at all!
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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I think what makes me giggle most are the posters who come on for brief snippets of time and assume all of us on here are high school drop outs who need to be graced with their insights and "tools" the others wouldn't know about such as Myers-Briggs. What they don't know from not having been on the Board long enough is that we are true mix of society. Yes, there are those of us who may be high school drop outs who never heard of Myers-Briggs. There are still others who are highly educated doctors, lawyers, psychologists,engineers, senior executives at major corporations, PhD's, professors at institutes of higher learning.
Confucius say: "Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance."
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just a preacher man with insightful life experiences like many of you.
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Seriously, anyone banging their head against a wall yet? Why bother/enable?
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EA: 2 months, ending June 08
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prd, you remind me a guy I dated once. Not a very mature guy.....he thought he was really funny but in fact people were laughing AT him, not with him (we didn't date long lol). You amuse me. All the best with your Myer-Briggs. Brush up on your MB principles though, then you can REALLY knock the socks off people!
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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just a preacher man with insightful life experiences like many of you.
prd Prd ... what led you to His Needs Her Needs, which is part of the Marriage Builders program? Have you read the Basic Concepts from the top of the site?
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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prd, you remind me a guy I dated once. Not a very mature guy.....he thought he was really funny but in fact people were laughing AT him, not with him (we didn't date long lol). You amuse me. All the best with your Myer-Briggs. Brush up on your MB principles though, then you can REALLY knock the socks off people! i will not respond in kind, i am the highway! prd
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