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Does anyone have a source for a keylogger/monitor for an ipod Touch. It isn't a phone, but H has been using it more often as a way to browse on wi-fi, check email (and knows I am able to check his BB and the email and FB accounts I know about). He isn't aware I have a keylogger on his Mac, but I think he suspects it. I recently caught him being really secretive about what he was browsing (was quick to put it down, acted weird about it)....and later noticed he had deleted his history and cache. The keylogger would be preferred, but is there, maybe, a way to retrieve old history without him knowing...recovery or restore info? Thanks, in advance, to any veteran in the know about something I could try.

I realize,I could probably just ask him, but he was a frequent liar...very good at it. He says what he thinks I wanna hear ("I'm being transparent", "I'm being honest" etc) and denies, denies...but, even more so when it's quite the opposite he's actually doing -- a frequent people pleaser to get his cake eating. I have pretty good intuition, but the only way I was able to know I was being deceived or where he's truly at with things was to have proof.

We are in "recovery"...he has been seeming very, very depressed (withdrawal, I assume) and we are only about 10 weeks since his last SC with her and NC letter. And, she has emailed him under my radar to his work account, after being told not to by him...one of them very recently. He's only shared two with me and we have ignored her (no response -- just her asking for "forgiveness",..."please don't hate me", blah, blah, pity party attention stuff).

I hate knowing there are still loop holes for her to make contact while he/we are still wobbly in the recover process.


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I am also wondering this very thing? Does anyone know if the iphone recovery stick would work on the ipod touch?


BW (Me) age 41
WH age 40
kids 9 & 3
DD PA Skank #1 2/07
DD PA Skank #2 9/29/10
DD EA Skank #3 3/11 (occurred in '08)not sure if it was PA
Plan A- presently 9/2/11
Plan D- filed 12/20/11, served 12/24/11, 9/2/11 on hold, 12/1/11 cancelled
1/5/2011 WH tells me he is not 100% sure his relationship with OW would work.
7/21/2011 WH moves back home
11/7/2011 WH still foggy in ref to SK#3
Plan D- 1/2012 refiled

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