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Boy, THAT could be MY WH exactly! Haven't listened to the show - can someone attach a link? but unhappy (surprise!), tried to work on marriage (surprise!). Suddenly moved out, THEN a relationship 'developed' with his secretary.

Yeah, I'm not buying it.

Show was yesterday at 3? My WH was in an emailing rage with me at 1:00. (See post - Support Needed) Interesting.... Oh - only difference is that I am not scheduled to be on any show tomorrow.

Yes, I am working on Plan B implementation.



Me - BS 44
WH - 43
Married 19
DS - 13
DD - 9
SAHM, until H leaves without warning, quickly moves in with married OW and her 2 children from 2 different relationships. Facing financial ruin. I have no place to go but up from here.
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Originally Posted by SusieQ
Wow, Eddie just LOVES to hear himself talk!!

I felt much better about myself after listening to Eddie....as the Betrayed Spouse I saw exactly what kind of fog and delusional thought processes can go thru a cheaters brain!


BH(Me)= 55
WW(Her)=43
DD=24 (My step-daughter, been raising her since the age of 8, SHE'S MY DAUGHTER!!)
Married=13 yrs
Together=16.5 yrs
THIS IS MY STORY
WW moved out of the home = May 1,2011
D-Day=July 4, 2011
Dear Wife: I'm COMPLETELY CRAZY about you!.....as of Aug-2012 forget that last part....Good Luck to you and GOODBYE!!
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You can hear Kim by clicking on the rebroadcast until Monday. OR doing a searh on the archives and pulling up 7-29.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Got it. Not my WH. But BOY, the post descriptions sure could have been.....

just another indication that WS all follow the same script....

Just hard to see when you are in the thick of it!


Me - BS 44
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Married 19
DS - 13
DD - 9
SAHM, until H leaves without warning, quickly moves in with married OW and her 2 children from 2 different relationships. Facing financial ruin. I have no place to go but up from here.
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I laughed so hard when Eddie said something to the effect that one of the few minor things Kim coulda done to be a better wife was to come downstairs at 8:45 pm when he was downstairs hungry and waiting to be fed.








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Originally Posted by BillCarolina
Originally Posted by SusieQ
Wow, Eddie just LOVES to hear himself talk!!

I felt much better about myself after listening to Eddie....as the Betrayed Spouse I saw exactly what kind of fog and delusional thought processes can go thru a cheaters brain!


T/Jing but if you lik that sort of thing read a very funny post by Pepperband - she translates some nonsense a wayward posted on here. Its the wayward fog link in my sig below....


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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Originally Posted by MrWondering
I laughed so hard when Eddie said something to the effect that one of the few minor things Kim coulda done to be a better wife was to come downstairs at 8:45 pm when he was downstairs hungry and waiting to be fed.


Is THAT what he said? I didnt quite hear him and assumed he said he was being ignored or something!


What would you do if you were not afraid?

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Yep...if I could have reached through the phone I would have slappedhim for that one.


Me -BS 40
Him - FWH 34 (dtl)
3 D-Days from 12/25/10 to 01/06/11
NC - 01/09/11
02/20/12 done beating my head on that wall.
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Brightest moment for me was hearing how sure Dr. Harley was that the affair would end...


Married 1/2000.
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I felt the same way Mehr - it will collapse from its own stink. Kim kind of made me mad also. I just cannot feel sorry for her either. She did this to his wife of seven years.

The entire situation smells of rotting poop!!!

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I was less optimistic for her situation as well, because it is an affairage with no children....


Married 1/2000.
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Single mom of 4.

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Originally Posted by itistoughlove
I felt the same way Mehr - it will collapse from its own stink. Kim kind of made me mad also. I just cannot feel sorry for her either. She did this to his wife of seven years.

I didn't feel sorry for her either. She CHOSE to marry a known adulterer, so it is silly to be surprised when a cheater..........cheats. crazy She signed up for this, after all.


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What was disturbing is that this man clearly learned nothing the first time. He seemed to have no regrets about the first time he cheated and divorced, OR this time... its like anytime he gets the itch, he sees no problem.


Married 1/2000.
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Originally Posted by mehr
What was disturbing is that this man clearly learned nothing the first time. He seemed to have no regrets about the first time he cheated and divorced, OR this time... its like anytime he gets the itch, he sees no problem.

And THAT is an entitled and unrepentant wayward. I couldn't even listen past the first segment when he was on, it was just too much when I realized it was an affairage. I can't even help people on here when I realize that they are in an affairage. Just too much, for me.


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DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
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Originally Posted by Scotland
I can't even help people on here when I realize that they are in an affairage. Just too much, for me.


I can.

I kindly refer them to the divorce/divorcing forum.



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ILYBNILWY: 8/09
DDAY: 8/31/09
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Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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