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Just new here, about to expose but what precisely do I say? Can someone direct me to a thread on this please?
Affair has been going on for 9 months.
Me:BS 66
H: WS 67
Stalking by OW commenced Oct 2010
EA: March 2011-May 2011
SA: June 2011-present.
Moved out 7th March 2012
Status: Plan A
DD EA: June 11
DD SA: 31-12-11
M: 7 years: my second (widowed at 43, his 3rd)
My DS: 40 y.o.
My Grandson: 7 y.o.
Don't ever give up
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I recommend you ask on your original post so we can follow along better.
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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Hello serenadame, welcome to MB. Sorry you have to find yourself here, I am going through the same thing right now myself and it is far from fun. Be glad to have found this place, everyone here will help guide you along to make things as easy as possible for you. As for exposure, go here: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2566583#Post2566583and read up on it before you actually proceed. Read it fully and carefully because there are many details to take into account and you want to be sure and do it "dead on." When you have read the thread, come back here with any questions you may have and someone will help you out just as soon as possible. Edited to add: Oops, so very sorry, I didn't realize there already was a thread going. My sincerest apologies.
Last edited by Dawn1967; 02/11/12 10:51 PM.
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ok my original post now moved to this thread by moderators is about older husband i am worried i will make him ill.
Me:BS 66
H: WS 67
Stalking by OW commenced Oct 2010
EA: March 2011-May 2011
SA: June 2011-present.
Moved out 7th March 2012
Status: Plan A
DD EA: June 11
DD SA: 31-12-11
M: 7 years: my second (widowed at 43, his 3rd)
My DS: 40 y.o.
My Grandson: 7 y.o.
Don't ever give up
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ok my original post now moved to this thread by moderators is about older husband i am worried i will make him ill. Sere, the greater risk is your own mental and physical health. By tolerating your husbands affair and living with the OW flitting around your neighborhood, you are putting yourself at great risk for a nervous breakdown along with physical problems. Women have nervous breakdowns and suffer years of post traumatic stress disorder from enduring this kind of punishment. This is why Dr Harley recommends only 3 to 4 weeks of Plan A for women. Did you call Dr Harley on his radio show a few months ago? There was a caller with your exact same situation. He told her to MOVE out of there pronto.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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