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Who's in plan B and how's it going?
#2916209 09/03/01 10:07 PM
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I went to plan B in early August. It was ok as long as I was away on holidays but once I got back I fell apart-my nerves were so bad! There has been contact-my fault as I contacted him and we met for a few hours one day. There's not much change in him, still seems to want 2 lives, one with her and one with me.<BR>I've gone back to plan B.I'm trying to carry on on my own.<P>Is there any way to train your brain not to think about it? It's been over 6 months since d-day. I want these feelings gone. <P>How's it going for you guys?
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It's been about 2 months since d-day for me. Separated by 4000 miles and Plan B for the last month. She sent me an email, and I responded with a one liner(no LBing). She says she decided on divorce, but she refuses to file, and when I brought it up, she asked why do I keep 'pushing'? Anyway, my problem is as the days pass, I think I'm falling out of love with her, and I'm now afraid that if she changes her mind, I will not want her back. In fact, I'm almost certain I don't want her back, but I will be patient and let the pieces fall where they may. Anyone else have this problem where the longer it goes, the less they want their WS back?
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I have times where I feel like that too. Two days ago I took off my wedding ring, for the first time. The next morning I put it back on. <BR>I can see how this kind of thinking will just increase over time and I will no longer want him back if he takes too long.

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