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why is it that i dont care what WS does?<BR>it used to bother me that he smoked pot<BR>now i dont care<BR>i dont care if he drinks<BR>or goes to strip clubs or stays online for hours at a time<BR>now none of this seems significant i dont care what he does<BR>or who hes with or what time he comes home i know hes not in contact with OW or any new OWs and with this im releived i dont think i would go through it twice<BR>but why dont i care that h looks at pron or drinks<BR>or goes t o strip clubs?<P><BR>it bothers me that i no longer care <P><BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LuvOnTheRox:<BR><B>why is it that i dont care what WS does?<BR>it used to bother me that he smoked pot<BR>now i dont care<BR>i dont care if he drinks<BR>or goes to strip clubs or stays online for hours at a time<BR>now none of this seems significant i dont care what he does<BR>or who hes with or what time he comes home i know hes not in contact with OW or any new OWs and with this im releived i dont think i would go through it twice<BR>but why dont i care that h looks at pron or drinks<BR>or goes t o strip clubs?<P><BR>it bothers me that i no longer care <P></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I am so afraid of getting where you are. I am FWS now BS (dday was last Friday) and after a year of plan A ( since July 2000) by me on him I am exhausted. In all ways, mentally emotionally physically...I am so tired that I think it possible I will not care much longer. After all the work to not be able to trust him now, frankly I dont think I want him even around me right now. I cant believe what has transpired in my life this past week. I wanted to die the day of my own DDay june 2000, now I wish I had. He could have been free from that day on. Imagine that. He would not have had to cheat on me...<P>
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B,<P> You are in a tough situation. One thing to keep in mind is this is likely a form of revenge. He likely still loves you. Something to think about.<P> LOR,<P> Yes that is a question I asked myself a few days ago to. At that time I did not even care if we ended the M. That has changed now that W has moved out. Now I am kicking myself for all the LBing I did. <P> Stay strong and hang in there.<P> jd
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