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Hi Lor I read your post on billbailey's thread about not knowing about the A for 8mos. and your H denying the entire thing not wanting to reconcile but not giving any real reasons. This is my life. If you've read any of my posts I am in that very position. H and I have been separated 6mos. I am still devastated. Can't move on just existing and having a hard time in general. I would really like to talk to you and get your opinion/advice on a few things. <BR>C

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by cybil:<BR><B>I am still devastated. Can't move on just existing and having a hard time in general. I would really like to talk to you and get your opinion/advice on a few things. <BR>C</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Me, too. Would you two please let me into this? I can't function, I can't stop crying, I can't eat.<P>I'm watching Dr. Phil on Oprah right now - all of the focus on Sept. 11. I was grieving that disaster when my husband hit me with my own. <P>Some days I don't feel like I'll ever recover. Maybe we could all help each other?<BR>

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cybil,<BR>I'm not familiar with your story. But I'll try to answer your questions. Do you want to ask on the forum, or email?<P>MY H was in and out of the house, so I don't have experience with a separation over 5 months. We had 7 separations totalling 14 months out of 21. The longest was the last one at 5 months. <P>I'm online mainly in the a.m. so if I don't get back this pm, I'll answer then.<P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious...think about these things." Phil 4:8


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