I'd like to throw a question out there for all BS and WS that are in recovery (I'll post this on the recovery board as well).<P>Who took the lead at the moment you both decided to try again and how did it happen?<P>I'm at the point right now where I feel things have gotten better between my wife and I. I guess I'm just fishing for ideas on how to break the deadlock or "limbo" we are now in...