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My husband had an affair with a coworker after I finished my 1st cancer treatment and continued the relationship after getting it a second time and I found out 2 months ago that all of this went down. He is this person boos and still works with her. Help what do I do now.
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My husband had an affair with a coworker after I finished my 1st cancer treatment and continued the relationship after getting it a second time and I found out 2 months ago that all of this went down. He is this person boos and still works with her. Help what do I do now. Avery-Ford, welcome to Marriage Builders. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Are you married? How long married? Any children? How did you find out about this affair? Is the OW married?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yes I am married for 23 years and we have 3 children 23, 22, and 15 and a 3 year old grandson that all live with us. I found pictures in his phone 2 months ago and 2 weeks ago I found out that they have been having sex since last year when traveling on business trips and yes the other women is married with 3 kids also and has not told her Husband about the affair.
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The first thing to do is to get proof of the affair that would convince a jury. Did you download the pictures to a secure location? Any texts or emails? Once you have the proof, expose the affair following the guidelines in MelodyLane's post.
Meanwhile, take care to avoid love busters.
Married 1980
DDay Nov 2010
Recovered thanks to Marriage Builders
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Yes I am married for 23 years and we have 3 children 23, 22, and 15 and a 3 year old grandson that all live with us. I found pictures in his phone 2 months ago and 2 weeks ago I found out that they have been having sex since last year when traveling on business trips and yes the other women is married with 3 kids also and has not told her Husband about the affair. Avery, did you save this evidence? Have you confronted your husband yet? In the meantime, I would go read the link in my signature Exposure 101. We can help you save your marriage if you can follow those steps. That is your best chance of saving your marriage. Affairs thrive on secrecy and exposure ruins the affair.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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